|
|
Ten
Qualities
That Make a Good Mistress
|
1.
Control.
Above all, a good Mistress is always in control of herself.
She does not rant or rave, and never punishes when angry.
On the rare times that temper overwhelms her, she walks
away until she regains balance. After all, how can a
Domme control her sub if she can't control herself?
2. Creative.
A good Dominant puts time, energy and creativity in
her scenes. She is not satisfied playing the same games
over and over, and goes the extra length to come up
with new and different ideas.
3. Human. The best
Mistress knows she is human. She realizes she will make
mistakes, and is quick to apologize when she does. She
knows she won't be thought of as any less "Dommly"
because of an apology. On the flip side, she realizes
that others will make mistakes also, and even though
she may punish for the mistake, she accepts an apology
graciously and puts the event in the past.
4. Compassionate.
A good Mistress is compassionate. She cares about her
sub(s), friends and family. She takes time to listen
and respond to the needs of others. She isn't selfish
and doesn't have the illusion that the world revolves
around her.
5. Technique. A
good Domme works on her play technique. She knows how
to use her toys and practices frequently. She reads
the latest books and talks to others in the scene. An
effective Mistress tests her toys on herself before
she uses them on her sub.
6. Consistent. The
best FemmeDom is consistent in her instructions and
requests. She doesn't give her sub conflicting commands.
She delivers equal punishment for equal offenses, and
equal rewards when pleased. She is firm in her direction
and does not waiver when faced with a difficult situation.
7. Thorough. An
effective Dominant is thorough. She directs a scene
from start to finish to better allow her sub to achieve
headspace. She takes away all distractions and decisions...telling
her sub what position she desires, what needs she wants
fulfilled, and how this is best accomplished.
8. Respectful.
A good Mistress respects herself and others. She strives
to always project herself in the best possible light,
and expects the same from her submissives. She is well
groomed, and takes pride in her looks. She takes good
care of her toys and equipment.
9. Safe. A Domme
worth playing with is safe. She is aware of the damage
she can cause a submissive and does her best to prevent
harm. She knows first-aid and attends classes periodically
to keep herself updated.
10. Communication.
A good Domme is an effective communicator. She
says what she means, and means what she says. She is
specific and chooses her words carefully. She doesn't
rant, nag or whine because she knows this shows a lack
of control. She states instructions in a clear, easy-to-understand
manner. |
You
can now see Mistress Fire in a professionally produced
feature documentary
*BDSM Alternative Loving*
Get
your copy Today! |
|
|
Slaves
Required
Honesty
is of utmost
importance to Me.
Dont Ever Disrespect
My Intelligence |
|
|
